Building a healthy sense of self

• [[love#Conditional love]]

Non-self

Anata

• Healthy Gamer: What is self?
  • where does the sense of identity come from
  • where does maleness, developerness come from
    • what sensations?
• Healthy Gamer: Neti Neti
  • not this, not this
  • if you can point to it, it's not a part of your

Ajahn Brahm

When someone lashes out on you, it's not personal: there's nothing that you need or can change about yourself

HG: I spent $50k on dating coaches video

[!How to respond to a compliment? ] can you help me understand that ?

[!How to be proud of myself]- 1. what did I do to deserve this? You showed up, you did a little

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Last update: 2023-04-24