[!Effect of this samscara]- self-fulfilling prophecy nocebo effect
[!What causes this samscara?]- When did you lose hope?
[!How to digest the samscara?]- catch the thought try things
- "can't afford to make a mistake"
- dropped out of college
- can't go back to college because they need to pick the right major
- couldn't take a step forward after years
people who are successful - understand can afford to make mistakes
- catch the thought
- mourn the past
- those years are gone
- live in the present
- what do I need to do today?
"no such thing as ready"
[!How do you know if you have this?] when you take a step forward, does the feeling of readiness increase?
fear of rejection - stuck in limbo because we're attached to the postiive - friend zone: stuck to the idea that we could have a beautiful relationship - paralyzed by giant love - limbo: that love might still have a chance
What to do¶
- what you want from it
- let go of the positive dream
Individuality can be a - road block or a road map - how will I compensate?
- short man who wants a partner
- height is the excuse for everything
- if people reject me for my height, has nothing to do with communication, out of shape
- forego any responsibility